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Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details.
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- 1 weeks ago1h 6m
#509 Stop People-Pleasing: How to Finally Know Your Worth with Thais Gibson
What if being the “easygoing” one, always saying yes, and putting everyone else’s needs first is actually keeping you from knowing your own worth?In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson, counselor, speaker, Ph.D., and founder of The Personal Development School, to explore the hidden connection between people-pleasing, attachment styles, and self-worth. With expertise in over 13 therapeutic modalities, Thais shares her insights into why we develop these patterns, how they show up in our relationships, and what it takes to break free from them.We dive into why people-pleasing is so common, how our upbringing can shape our need for approval, and the subtle ways we abandon ourselves to keep others happy. We also explore why even the most reasonable boundaries can feel uncomfortable, and how to recognize when being agreeable comes at the expense of your own needs.Plus, we unpack the difference between genuine confidence and conditional self-worth. Why do so many of us measure our value by how useful, successful, attractive, agreeable, or wanted we are? And how can we begin to feel worthy simply because of who we are, rather than what we do for others?Thais shares practical tools for building a stronger sense of self-worth, setting boundaries with greater confidence, and creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships. We wrap up with her top tips for strengthening your self-worth and learning to show up as your most authentic self.In this episode, we explore:What The Personal Development School is all about and Thais’s approach to attachment theory.Why people-pleasing develops and how childhood experiences can shape our patterns.The obvious and more subtle signs of people-pleasing.Why setting boundaries can feel so difficult, even when they’re completely reasonable.The difference between genuine confidence and conditional self-worth.How even highly successful and seemingly confident people can struggle with feeling worthy.Practical tools to stop tying your value to achievement, appearance, approval, or being needed.Thais’s top tips for building lasting self-worth.About our guest: Thais GibsonThais Gibson is a counselor, speaker, and leader in the personal development field. She holds a Ph.D. and is certified in over 13 modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, NLP, somatic processing, and trauma work. Drawing on her academic training, personal experience, and client-based research, she developed Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™ and founded The Personal Development School, which offers in-depth programs, courses, and modules focused on personal growth, emotional healing, and relationships.Connect with Thais:Website: http://personaldevelopmentschool.comTake her quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/quizInstagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschoolYouTube: @thepersonaldevelopmentschoolPodcast: The Thais Gibson PodcastIf you’ve ever struggled to say no, felt responsible for everyone else’s happiness, or found yourself questioning your worth when you’re not being productive or pleasing others, this conversation is for you. It’s time to stop earning your worth and start learning how to believe in it.Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreatDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our <a href="https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/ZMM6NZHZZMCJ?ref_=wl_share" rel="noopener
- 2 weeks ago1h 2m
#508 True Dominance Starts with Mastering YOU with Justin Adams
In this episode, we sit down with Justin Adams, founder of The Dominance Academy, to explore dominance as something far deeper than bedroom technique, power, or performance. A Brooklyn-based practitioner and educator, Justin approaches dominance as a discipline of character rooted in self-authored ethics, ritual, self-awareness, and the responsibility that comes with being trusted by another person.Drawing on Taoism, Stoicism, and Jungian shadow integration, Justin offers a thoughtful alternative to both Manosphere masculinity and the often-sanitized conversations surrounding mainstream kink culture. We get into the psychology of power, the difference between healthy authority and pathological control, and why true dominance begins with mastering yourself.We also unpack nice guy syndrome and how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and unspoken expectations can undermine confidence, intimacy, and sexual dynamics. Is dominance something every man can benefit from learning, even if he doesn't identify as kinky? And what separates a man who simply likes being in control in the bedroom from someone who understands the responsibility of wielding power?From building trust and practicing healthy dominance to exploring how BDSM can foster deeper communication and stronger relationships, Justin shares practical insights for anyone interested in becoming more intentional in their relationships and sexuality.We also discuss his forthcoming book, Way of Surrender: The Tao of BDSM, which explores a compelling paradox: the Dominant surrenders to the Tao, while the submissive surrenders to the Dominant. Plus, we talk about his work giving submissives a platform to share their own experiences and perspectives, challenging the tendency to speak about them rather than listen to them.In this conversation, we explore:Dominance as a discipline of character rather than a collection of techniquesThe difference between healthy dominance, control, and manipulationWhy dominance isn't necessarily synonymous with kinkNice guy syndrome, people-pleasing, and the dynamics of desirePractical tools for developing confidence and healthy authorityHow BDSM can deepen trust, communication, and intimacyWhy sexual dominance without education or preparation can be problematicThe philosophy of surrender, power exchange, and personal responsibilityWhether you're curious about BDSM, interested in masculine identity and personal growth, or looking to build more honest, intentional relationships, this conversation challenges conventional ideas about power, masculinity, and what it truly means to lead.Learn more about Justin's work and The Dominance Academy at https://thedominanceacademy.com/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thedominanceacademySubstack: https://open.substack.com/pub/thedominanceacademyLearn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreatDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListFollow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links:Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at <a href="https://vb.health/discount/shameless?utm_source=shameless" rel="n
- 3 weeks ago1h 5m
#507 Blow Me Away: Advanced Oral Skills with Alicia and Erwan Davon
This episode is with repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon and is all about upping your blowjobs skills. #258 was all about using hands and mouths for oral pleasure. Now let’s get more advanced! We discuss:*The common issues/fears people have around giving blowjobs*The common issues penis owners have around receiving*Basics/1.0 level skills people should know about*How Tantra can it take oral sex even deeper/to the advanced level*Advanced oral sex tips for the giver*Advanced oral sex tips for the receiver*Whether actions such as swallowing and the money shot matterMore about our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon are the foremost Tantra teachers in the San Francisco Bay Area and the creators of the Davon Method, their signature approach to love, intimacy, and connection.For over 22 years, this married couple has taught more than 22,000 students through group programs, retreats, and private sessions — guiding singles into lasting relationships and helping couples thrive. Their method blends academic backgrounds in psychology with the principles of Zen Buddhism into a holistic path for deepening connection with yourself and others. As the Bay Area's go-to teachers for all things romantic and sexual, they now reach students worldwide through online learning.Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors, drawing on both a challenging childhood and an early immersion in therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen monastery, direct a yoga ashram, train in cutting-edge sensual practices, and teach personal development at one of the world's largest personal-growth organizations. In 1995, his passion for teaching led him to found the Davon Method, dedicated to helping people build extraordinary romantic relationships.Alicia holds a Master's degree in Integral Psychology, with a focus on women's romantic and sexual expression. She has led numerous women's groups devoted to female pleasure and fulfillment across career, relationship, and life. She met Erwan 23 years ago and began teaching alongside him a year later.Together, Erwan and Alicia have spent more than two decades refining a curriculum and a set of techniques that create a safe, welcoming space to grow. Whether you want to build chemistry, deepen connection, communicate more openly, or reignite passion, their guidance meets you where you are — and makes the process genuinely fun. Get ready: working with them is a blast. To learn more go to: https://davonmethod.com/ Follow them on IG @davonmethod Find them on Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alicia-davon/To set up a consultation:415 308 9580https://davonmethod.com/consultLearn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreatDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListFollow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links:Up-level your life and get at least 15% off any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shamelessGet 15% off OneSkin with the code SHAMELESS
- 4 weeks ago56 min
#506 Pucker Up! Let’s Talk Kissing with Ashely Randall
Let’s Talk About Kissing! 💋 In this episode, we’re joined by repeat guest Ashley Randall (aka Irreverent Femme) for a deep dive into one of the most underrated parts of intimacy: kissing. We’re talking all things making out—from different kissing styles and techniques to neck kissing, full-body kissing, and how to figure out what your partner actually likes. We also explore why kissing and making out can so often disappear from long-term relationships, what you can do to bring it back, and why kissing can be such an important part of intimacy and connection. Plus, we get into what to do (and what not to do!) when it comes to being a great kisser, how to learn your partner’s unique kissing style, and how to keep things playful, connected, and exciting. About our guest:Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme, is a certified Sex, Intimacy & Kink Coach, Dominatrix, and erotic perfumist. She offers transformative coaching for individuals and partners seeking deeper intimacy, sexual confidence, and authentic connection. 💋 Ready to up your kissing game? This episode is for you. Learn more about Ashley at http://irreverentcoaching.com Follow her on IG @irreverentlovecoaching Check out her erotic perfums: https://www.irreverentscents.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Other links: Get turned on anywhere, anytime with Dipsea + get a week FREE and then 25% at http://dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at https://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
- Sep 29, 20261h 11m
#505 Cock Pep Talk: What Your Penis Wants You to Know
In this episode, we’re joined by Andre Lazarus, Somatic Intimacy Guide, sex and intimacy coach, and one of the professional surrogate partners featured on the UK series Virgin Island. Andre takes us behind the scenes of his unconventional work, including what it’s actually like to help people navigate intimacy challenges — and whether being a surrogate partner means, well… what you might think it means. We then get into the big questions around men and sex: what Andre wishes more men knew, what he wishes they’d do less of, and what he wishes more women understood about supporting the men they’re intimate with. We also tackle two issues that come up frequently in Andre’s work: erection difficulties and “rapid ejaculation.” Why do they happen? How much does performance pressure play a role? And what can men actually do about it? And finally, perhaps the most important question of all: If your penis could use a little pep talk, what should you say to it? Expect a candid, funny, and practical conversation about sex, confidence, vulnerability, communication, and learning to get out of your head — and back into your body. What a surrogate partner actually does Andre’s experience on Virgin Island Men, sex, and performance pressure Erection difficulties and rapid ejaculation What men should do more — and less — in bed What women can do to better support male partners Building sexual confidence and connection And, yes… what to say to your penis when it needs some encouragement Learn more about Andre and his work at www.coming-closer.com. Follow him on IG @comingcloserwithandre Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links: Get 10% off getting turned on by Drive Boost with code SHAMELESS at https://vb.health Bring the heat back into your sex life with $10 off your first month at http://getarya.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off the best sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount
- Sep 22, 20261h 7m
#504 How to Dirty Talk Without the Cringe with Dr. Shannon Chavez
This week, we’re joined by Dr. Shannon Chavez, a leading voice in modern sexual wellness and one of the incredible experts teaching at our next Shameless Sex Couples Retreat! Dr. Chavez is a licensed clinical psychologist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, professional sex coach, and founder of SHAPE Psychology. Her work brings a holistic, culturally inclusive approach to sex, relationships, and pleasure—and helps make conversations about sexuality feel more accessible, meaningful, and shame-free. In this episode, we’re getting into one of the sexiest—and sometimes most awkward—topics: dirty talk! How do you make it feel authentic instead of forced? What if you feel totally uncomfortable saying “naughty” things out loud? And how do you figure out what actually turns you and your partner on? We talk about: What Dr. Chavez is hearing from clients about dirty talk: Are people into it, wanting more of it, or feeling intimidated by it? Why dirty talk can feel so vulnerable, awkward, or difficult—even when you’re turned on The different styles and forms of dirty talk, and how to find what works for you A step-by-step approach to making dirty talk feel more natural and authentic How to build confidence and discover your personal dirty-talk style How to know what to say in the moment (without feeling like you have to perform!) Talking about boundaries and consent around erotic language How couples can create their own shared erotic language And how to move past shame and self-consciousness so you can actually enjoy talking dirty Whether you’re a seasoned dirty-talker or the mere thought of saying something sexy out loud makes you want to crawl under the covers, this episode will give you practical tools to make erotic communication feel more natural, playful, and connected. Learn more about Dr. Shannon Chavez at http://drshannonchavez.com. Follow here on IG: @drshannonchavez Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com Get turned on anywhere, anytime with Dipsea + get a week FREE and then 25% at http://dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off the best sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount
- Sep 15, 20261h 7m
#503 So… What Are You Into?
In this episode, we’re joined by our marketing director Paigge Gilbert for a deeply curious conversation about sex, pleasure, intimacy, and desire. We talk about what it’s actually like to train as a sex and relationship coach through Somatica—and dive into some big questions about how we experience and explore our erotic selves. We explore: Our core desires and how to discover how you want to feel during sex Once you know how you want to feel, how do you figure out what you want to explore? How to access your erotic energy when you feel disconnected from your body—or even unattracted to your partner Ways to become more embodied and experience more pleasure Why allowing yourself to feel your erotic desire, even in public, can be powerful What kink and spanking can actually do for us—and why certain things turn us on The power of dirty talk, curiosity, and “cheerleading” someone as they share their erotic fantasies How to get curious about desire rather than judging it What sex and relationship coaching training through Somatica is really like This is a conversation about moving beyond the idea that there’s a “right” way to experience sexuality and instead getting curious about what makes you feel alive, embodied, connected, and turned on. About our guest: Paigge Gilbert has spent the last eight years figuring out how to successfully market the things the internet doesn’t always make easy to talk about: sex, pleasure, intimacy, and relationships. As the founder of Queen Media, she’s built her career developing marketing strategies for leading sex educators, relationship experts, adult stars, podcasts, and sexual wellness brands, helping them grow loyal audiences while navigating censorship, stigma, and constantly changing platforms. Now, she’s adding another layer to that expertise by completing the Somatica Institute’s Sex & Relationship Coach Certification, with the goal of bringing her years of industry experience into more direct, intimate work with clients. Apply to do a practice session with Paigge: https://www.queenmedia.com/somatica-practice-session Check out Queen Media: https://www.queenmediamgmt.com Follow her on IG @paaaiiggee and @queenmediamgmt Learn more about the Somatica training: https://www.somaticainstitute.com Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links: Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at https://loadboost.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off the best sex toys and lube with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount. And click here to set up a free 15 minute consult to discover if you are in menopause
- Sep 8, 20261h 14m
#502 Premature Ejaculation and How to Last Longer In Bed
Why do so many men struggle to last as long as they want—and why do so many women struggle with arousal and sensation? In this episode, we sit down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, a leading sexual wellness company focused on helping people improve intimacy, confidence, and sexual health. Jeff shares the story behind Promescent, from discovering a groundbreaking treatment for premature ejaculation developed by urologist Dr. Ronald Gilbert to building the company into a full-spectrum sexual wellness brand with more than 5 million bottles sold and thousands of healthcare professionals recommending its products. We dig into some of the most common—and often misunderstood—sexual health concerns affecting men and women. Jeff explains what premature ejaculation actually means, how common it is, what qualifies as “premature,” and the different options available for improving ejaculatory control, including the surprising role of medications like SSRIs. We also turn the conversation toward women’s sexual health, exploring why low libido, difficulty becoming aroused, and reduced sensation are so common, what can contribute to these issues, and what options exist for improving arousal and pleasure. Finally, Jeff breaks down how Promescent’s doctor-developed products work, how they differ from other solutions on the market, and why making sexual wellness more accessible can have such a meaningful impact on confidence and intimacy. In this episode, we discuss: Why sexual health challenges are so common for both men and women What premature ejaculation is—and how it’s defined How common ejaculatory control issues are Strategies and treatments for lasting longer Whether SSRIs can be used to delay ejaculation How sexual wellness products work and what makes them different The most common arousal challenges women experience Why low libido and reduced sensation are so prevalent Options for improving female arousal and pleasure The role of sexual wellness in confidence, intimacy, and overall quality of life Check out Promescent and get 15% off: https://www.promescent.com/shameless15 Follow Promescent on IG @promescent Facebook @promescent Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links: Up-level your life and get at least 15% off any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHAMELESS at https://www.oneskin.co/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 15% off the best sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount
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