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by Paul Salter
The Unstuck High Performer Podcast is for successful people who know they're capable of more but feel stuck underperforming relative to their potential. Hosted by high-performance hypnotherapist and mindset coach Paul Salter, this show helps CEOs, founders, executives, entrepreneurs, and ambitious professionals identify and eliminate the invisible resistance keeping them trapped in hesitation, overthinking, inconsistency, burnout, and quiet self-sabotage. If you know what to do but aren't doing it consistently, this show will help you get unstuck, out of your own way, and perform at the level you know you're capable of.
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- 2 weeks ago30 min
198. Why Working Harder Stops Working at the Next Level of Success
What happens when the strategy that created your success—working harder than everyone else—stops working? In this episode, I unpack why effort alone stops separating you at higher levels of success, how the beliefs that once fueled your ambition can eventually become your biggest limitations, and why your next level may require less outworking everyone else and more willingness to confront what you've been able to outrun with work. In this episode, you'll learn: Why work ethic becomes less of a competitive advantage as you become more successful How pushing harder can disguise exhaustion, avoidance, and an inability to relinquish control Why the beliefs that created your success can eventually begin limiting it How "If I'm not working, I'm falling behind" makes slowing down feel unsafe How needing to continually earn your place makes every achievement feel temporary Why new levels of success can exceed your emotional capacity to comfortably hold them Why your subconscious may prefer familiar success over a bigger—but uncertain—future How being needed can make you feel valuable while preventing you from creating the freedom you say you want Why surface-level solutions like "delegate more" fail when the underlying belief remains unchanged Listen to the full episode. Key Time Stamps: 00:00: What got you here won't get you there 5:31: Why your work ethic stops being a competitive advantage at higher levels of success 9:17: Are you pressing the accelerator while unknowingly riding the brake? 10:11: When the beliefs that made you successful become the beliefs holding you back 14:22: Why every achievement can still leave you feeling like you have something to prove 19:15: You finally reached the goal—so why do you immediately need another one? 22:55: The surprising reason you might subconsciously sabotage the success you've worked so hard to achieve 24:27: Why "just delegate" and "just be more present" rarely fix the real problem APPLY FOR 1-1 PRIVATE COACHING I'm best known for helping founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. LISTEN TO THE COST OF SUCCESS PODCAST Follow and listen to The Cost of Success Podcast. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter BUILD YOUR BUSINESS WITH PEOPLE WHO GET IT The M19 mastermind brings ambitious, golf-loving entrepreneurs together to build meaningful relationships, solve real business challenges, and grow alongside people operating at a similar level. Join me and many of the guests there by applying to join today. Apply here. DOWNLOAD FREE GUIDED HYPNOSIS AUDIO FOR FOUNDERS AND CEOS Click here to download a free guided hypnosis experience designed to help you slow down, recognize what you've been feeling, and honestly examine whether work is costing you the relationships, health, and life that matter most.
- 3 weeks ago48 min
197. An Open Letter to The High Achiever Suffering in Silence
How long will you keep telling yourself you'll prioritize your health, your marriage, your kids—and yourself—when life finally gives you more time? In this special open-letter episode, I challenge the belief that "later" is eventually coming and expose what waiting for the right time, enough space, or a painful enough crisis may already be costing you. In this episode, you'll learn: What "I'll see if I can squeeze it in" reveals about your actual priorities How your calendar and attention communicate what matters more accurately than your words Why you can genuinely love your family while repeatedly giving them your leftovers How legitimate responsibilities become noble excuses for avoiding change Why being needed can become part of your identity—and a way to avoid being known Why one of the most dangerous moments in a marriage is when your spouse stops fighting for your attention How your ability to tolerate extraordinary amounts of pressure can keep you suffering longer than necessary Why you don't need to hit rock bottom to justify changing How "later" allows you to feel committed to change without requiring you to change today Why your next level may require more honesty and self-awareness—not more force and discipline How to distinguish between genuinely preparing for change and simply postponing it You don't need to lose your edge to reclaim your life. But you do need to stop waiting for the diagnosis, breakdown, divorce, ultimatum, or the day your child stops asking before you finally give yourself permission to change. Your life isn't waiting for "later." It's being shaped by what you prioritize—and postpone—right now. Listen to the full episode. Key Time Stamps: 1:40: The dangerous promise high performers keep making: "I'll get to it later" 3:37: Why you always find time for business—but struggle to find time for what matters most 6:04: "I'll see if I can squeeze it in"—the sentence I haven't been able to stop thinking about 9:15: You can deeply love your family and still consistently give them what's left of you 13:36: When your most noble responsibilities become your most convincing excuses 15:34: How being needed by everyone else can protect you from confronting yourself 18:28: The 30-day test that reveals what actually matters most in your life 23:13: The dangerous moment your wife or children stop fighting for your attention 24:49: Why high performers wait for a crisis before finally giving themselves permission to change 29:10: The seductive lie of "later"—and why it keeps moving every time you get closer 32:44: What you continually postpone may reveal what you believe you can afford to lose 38:39: Why waiting until you feel "ready" may keep you stuck for the rest of your life I'm best known for helping founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. APPLY FOR 1-1 PRIVATE COACHING If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. LISTEN TO THE COST OF SUCCESS PODCAST Follow and listen to The Cost of Success Podcast. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter BUILD YOUR BUSINESS WITH PEOPLE WHO GET IT The M19 mastermind brings ambitious, golf-loving entrepreneurs together to build meaningful relationships, solve real business challenges, and grow alongside people operating at a similar level. Join me and many of the guests there by applying to join today. Apply here. DOWNLOAD FREE GUIDED HYPNOSIS AUDIO Click here to download a free guided hypnosis experience designed to help you slow down, recognize what you've been feeling, and honestly examine whether work is costing you the relationships, health, and life that matter most.
- Sep 28, 202633 min
196. If I Let Go of My Anger, Will I Lose My Edge?
What if the anger you believe gives you your edge is actually becoming one of the greatest threats to everything you've built? In this episode, I unpack why anger is often a learned protection strategy—not a personality trait—and how the very reaction that once helped you feel powerful, safe, or in control may now be costing you your marriage, your relationship with your children, your leadership, your health, and your peace. In this episode, you'll learn: Why anger is a learned reaction—not simply "who you are" How anger patterns are modeled and reinforced during childhood Why anger can become associated with strength, power, safety, and control The fear, shame, insecurity, rejection, and powerlessness that may exist underneath your anger Why vulnerability can feel more threatening than anger to high-achieving men How to recognize anger when it's at a 2 or 3 out of 10 instead of an 8 How to create space between a trigger and your response How quickly repairing after an angry reaction can change what your children learn from you Your greatest edge was never your anger. It's becoming the kind of leader, husband, and father who can experience anger without allowing it to take control of what happens next. If the people closest to you have learned to walk on eggshells—or you're tired of regretting what you say and do when you're triggered—this episode will show you where to begin. Listen to the full episode. Key Time Stamps: 4:02: What if your anger isn't your personality—but a learned reaction you can unlearn? 8:39: The childhood experiences that may have taught you anger equals strength and control 12:54: Why anger can appear to "work" while quietly destroying everything around you 13:22: What is your anger actually protecting you from? 17:02: Why shame may be hiding underneath some of your angriest reactions 20:22: The hidden price your wife, kids, team, body—and you—are paying for your anger 23:21: How to catch your anger before it takes control of what you say and do I help founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. APPLY FOR 1-1 PRIVATE COACHING If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. LISTEN TO THE COST OF SUCCESS PODCAST Follow and listen to The Cost of Success Podcast. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter BUILD YOUR BUSINESS WITH PEOPLE WHO GET IT The M19 mastermind brings ambitious, golf-loving entrepreneurs together to build meaningful relationships, solve real business challenges, and grow alongside people operating at a similar level. Join me and many of the guests there by applying to join today. Apply here.
- Sep 21, 202627 min
195. If You Can't Say These 3 Things to Your Wife, Your Marriage (and Business) Are in Trouble
You can lead a company, solve million-dollar problems, and make decisions most people are afraid to make—but when your wife asks what's wrong, do you still respond, "I'm fine"? In this episode, I unpack the three statements every high-achieving man needs to become comfortable saying—"I want," "I need," and "I feel"—before years of silence turn his marriage into a relationship between two people who still love each other but no longer know how to reach each other. In this episode, you'll learn: Why being an exceptional communicator at work doesn't mean you know how to communicate at home The three statements high-achieving men need to practice: I want, I need, I feel How "I'm doing this for us" can become a justification for emotional and physical absence Why expressing what you want isn't the same as creating a shared vision with your wife How your identity as provider, protector, and problem-solver can make asking for help feel unsafe Why unspoken needs eventually become behaviors your wife is forced to interpret How silence allows your wife's deepest fears to fill in the blanks Why providing an extraordinary lifestyle cannot indefinitely compensate for emotional absence How disconnection at home creates a cognitive and emotional tax that follows you into your business Your wife doesn't need another explanation of everything you're doing for the family. She needs access to the man she chose to build that family with. If you've become more comfortable solving problems at work than confronting the distance at home, this episode will challenge you to become as intentional about your marriage as you are about everything else you say matters. Listen to the full episode. Key Time Stamps: 00:00: You can solve million-dollar problems—so why do you tell your wife, "I'm fine"? 8:19: "I'm doing this for us"—when providing for your family starts sacrificing your family 11:20: Why saying "I need you" can feel threatening to a successful man's identity 15:06: The hardest words for many high-achieving men to say: "I feel…" 18:00: Why vulnerability becomes a superpower for successful men who finally embrace it 20:10: Silence isn't neutral—what your wife may assume when you refuse to open up 21:38: The hidden performance cost of a disconnected marriage I help founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. Follow and listen to The Cost of Success Podcast. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter BUILD YOUR BUSINESS WITH PEOPLE WHO GET IT The M19 mastermind brings ambitious, golf-loving entrepreneurs together to build meaningful relationships, solve real business challenges, and grow alongside people operating at a similar level. Join me and many of the guests there by applying to join today. Apply here.
- Sep 14, 202628 min
194. Why Can't I Forgive Myself—Even After All These Years?
What if hindsight isn't 20/20—what if it's cruel? In this episode, I challenge the way you've been judging your past self with information, maturity, and emotional capacity you only possess today—and show you how to take responsibility for what happened without continuing to punish yourself for something you can no longer change. In this episode, you'll learn: Why hindsight can become an unfair weapon against your past self The critical differences between regret, guilt, and shame How guilt evaluates your behavior while shame turns that behavior into your identity Why knowing better intellectually doesn't always mean you had the emotional capacity to do better How high performers confuse self-punishment with accountability How suffering can unconsciously become a form of "debt repayment" How unresolved guilt and shame affect you physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually Why compassionate accountability allows you to take responsibility without condemning yourself The 20-minute letter exercise for beginning to forgive the version of you you're still judging You don't honor your past by continuing to punish yourself for it. You honor it by taking responsibility, repairing what you can, and allowing what you learned to change how you live today. If you're still serving a sentence for something you can no longer change, this episode will help you begin carrying the lesson without continuing to carry the punishment. Listen to the full episode. Key Time Stamps: 2:57: Why "hindsight is 20/20" can become a cruel way to judge your past self 9:35: Regret vs. guilt vs. shame—and why understanding the difference matters 13:55: The dangerous moment when a mistake stops being something you did and becomes who you believe you are 16:01: "I knew better"—but did you actually have the emotional capacity to do better? 17:36: Why high performers fear forgiving themselves will make them lose their edge 20:33: When guilt becomes a debt you believe you have to repay through suffering 26:52: Compassionate accountability: how to forgive yourself without avoiding responsibility I help founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter Join me in the M19 Mastermind: Click here to apply. Tell them Paul sent you.
- Sep 7, 202626 min
193. "It's Cheaper to Keep Her"—But What Is Staying Actually Costing Me?
What if "it's cheaper to keep her" has far less to do with your marriage—and far more to do with what losing money would mean about you? In this episode, I challenge the relationship between money, self-worth, and legacy—and ask you to stop calculating only what leaving might cost and finally confront what staying exactly as you are may already be costing you. In this episode, you'll learn: What "it's cheaper to keep her" may reveal beneath the financial calculation Why losing wealth can feel like losing part of your identity How successful men can unconsciously equate net worth with self-worth The emotional, relational, and physical costs that never appear on a balance sheet Why remaining married and remaining miserable aren't your only options Why retirement can expose marital problems that busyness allowed you to avoid How to take responsibility for your contribution to the distance in your marriage The critical distinction between inheritance and legacy You've spent decades protecting what you've earned. But if preserving your wealth requires sacrificing your peace, health, happiness, or closest relationships, it's worth asking what you're actually protecting. This episode isn't an argument for divorce—it's an invitation to stop avoiding the work, take ownership of what can still be repaired, and make what matters most matter now. Listen to the full episode. Time Stamps: 3:40: "It's cheaper to keep her"—what that joke may actually reveal about your relationship with money 6:43: You've calculated what divorce could cost—but have you calculated the cost of staying unhappy? 8:45: When money stops being a resource and becomes proof of your worth 12:58: Trapped between guilt and resentment? Why staying may not be the noble choice you think it is 14:42: "If I lose half of what I built, was all of that sacrifice for nothing?" 17:58: The difference between leaving an inheritance and leaving a legacy 21:54: "Are you going to divorce me?" The conversation that finally broke years of marital avoidance I help founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter Join me in the M19 Mastermind: Click here to apply. Tell them Paul sent you.
- Aug 31, 202630 min
192. Why the More Successful You Become, the Easier It Is to Lose What Got You There
What if the greatest threat to your continued success isn't failure—but becoming successful enough to believe you no longer need what got you here? In this episode, I unpack the psychological trap that causes successful people to slowly abandon the fundamentals while their results remain strong—and why today's success may simply be yesterday's discipline disguising the consequences of today's shortcuts. In this episode, you'll learn: Why success creates the illusion that you've graduated from the fundamentals How recency bias causes you to misinterpret what's actually producing your results How consistency creates a "runway" that allows you to occasionally get off track Why that same runway can deceive you into believing your shortcuts are working How momentum can become both a privilege and a liability Why talented people can operate below their potential without immediately seeing consequences How increasing responsibility creates increasingly legitimate excuses for abandoning your standards Why a valid excuse doesn't eliminate the cost of your decision Your success has earned you room to bend—but don't mistake that privilege for proof that your shortcuts are working. If you've started treating the habits, routines, or standards that built your success as optional, this episode will help you recognize the drift and return to the fundamentals before your runway runs out. Listen to the full episode. Time Stamps: 0:00: Why your current success may actually be the greatest threat to your future success 7:08: The dangerous moment when success convinces you you've graduated from the fundamentals 11:14: Why today's results may have almost nothing to do with what you're doing today 13:22: He abandoned the routines that transformed his life—because success convinced him he didn't need them anymore 17:50: The harvest metaphor that exposes why your shortcuts can appear to be working 19:17: When momentum shifts from your greatest privilege to a dangerous liability 22:38: Why your most convincing excuses become more dangerous as you become more successful I help founders and CEOs overcome the hidden psychological and emotional costs of success so they build a life that feels as successful as it looks. Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter Join me in the M19 Mastermind: Click here to apply. Tell them Paul sent you.
- Aug 27, 202643 min
191. Breathwork Expert Explains How to Regulate Anxiety Without Losing Your Edge
What if the way you're breathing is quietly making it harder to handle pressure, recover from stress, and perform at your best? In this episode, I sit down with breathwork practitioner Kimberly Faith to explore how your breath affects your nervous system—and how learning to intentionally control it can become one of the simplest tools for regulating stress and anxiety without sacrificing your competitive edge. In this episode, you'll learn: The simple test that reveals whether you're breathing from your chest or diaphragm How chronic shallow breathing can keep you in a heightened stress state Why regulating your nervous system doesn't mean losing your competitive edge How to use your breath to both calm yourself down and intentionally increase energy Why breathwork can be useful when you struggle to put emotions into words The beginner technique Kimberly recommends for activating a calmer state Why surrender can be one of the hardest parts of breathwork for high achievers How Kimberly recommends combining deeper journeys with shorter daily practice You already breathe thousands of times every day. The question is whether your breath is working for you—or against you. If you want a practical introduction to using your breath to better navigate pressure, stress, and performance, listen to the full conversation. Time Stamps: 00:25: The 30-second breathing test that reveals how much stress your body is carrying 4:20: What happens inside your body when you continually suppress stress and emotion to perform 7:21: Afraid calming down will cost you your edge? Kimberly explains why the opposite may happen 10:06: Why breathwork can help when you can't find the words for what you're feeling 12:07: The high achiever who tried breathwork—and cried "tears of a thousand years" 14:54: The simplest breathing technique to calm your nervous system in minutes 23:27: What actually happens during a 90-minute breathwork journey—and why high performers are using them I help high performers get unstuck and out of their own way to unlock their potential. Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: If you're successful on paper but feel misaligned, overwhelmed, or stuck at your next level, private coaching may be the fastest path forward. Click here to apply to work with me. Follow me on Instagram: @thepaulsalter Watch on YouTube: @thepaulsalter Join me in the M19 Mastermind: Click here to apply. Tell them Paul sent you. More About Kimberly Faith Kimberly Faith helps high performers get out of their heads and back into their bodies. A speaker, author, and TEDx presenter, she has guided more than 1,500 people across 7 countries through breathwork experiences that cut straight to what is actually holding them back. Her work is built on a simple idea: real change happens in the body, not the mind. By using somatic breathwork, she helps driven people release the pressure they carry, reconnect with themselves, and perform from a place of calm rather than force. No overthinking required, just breath, presence, and a way forward. When she is not working with clients, you can find Kimberly out in the Colorado mountains with her dog Peanut, chasing adventures on the trails, on the water, and everywhere in between. Learn more about Kimberly at her website here. Connect with Kimberly on social media below: Instagram (@adventuresofkimberlyfaith) LinkedIn (@kimberlyfaithray)
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The Unstuck High Performer Podcast is for successful people who know they're capable of more but feel stuck underperforming relative to their potential. Hosted by high-performance hypnotherapist and mindset coach Paul Salter, this show helps CEOs, founders, executives, entrepreneurs, and ambitious professionals identify and eliminate the invisible resistance keeping them trapped in hesitation, overthinking, inconsistency, burnout, and quiet self-sabotage. If you know what to do but aren't doing it consistently, this show will help you get unstuck, out of your own way, and perform at the level you know you're capable of.
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