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by Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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- 2 days ago57 min
Bible Belt Swingers: The Detective, the Therapist & the Lifestyle
What happens when a sex crimes detective falls for his therapist, and they end up swingers in the Bible Belt? Adam and Pris sit down with Kole and Bella Hart, a Texas couple living the swinger lifestyle while still sitting in a pew every Sunday. He's a former detective turned firefighter. She's a former therapist who now teaches Bible class. Together they're proof that ethical non-monogamy doesn't look just one way. In this episode of the Beyond Monogamy swinger podcast: How a detective and his therapist met: two sessions, a discharge, and a lost license Going from seeing himself as a "sexual deviant" to embracing ethical non-monogamy Bella's journey from never having heard of swinging to full swap Faith and the swinger lifestyle: feeling like a hypocrite in church, and finding peace Jealousy, being territorial, and the "not her" veto Pre-claiming, reclaiming, and why aftercare matters Starting an OnlyFans as swingers, and the "you're not real swingers" critique Advice for the curious couple next door who's scared to bring it up 🍍 SPONSOR: 3Fun The app for couples and singles looking to connect with like-minded people. Low pressure and way less awkward (and yes, Kole & Bella are on it too). Download here: go3fun.co/ad/TK11932 🎓 SWINGER 101 WORKSHOP: Austin, TX Sunday, November 15, 6–8 PM Central at Forbidden Fruit. $20/person, light refreshments. Curious but don't know where to start? This is your sign. ❄️ KRAZY WINTER NIGHTS: Kansas City, MO February 19–21, 2027. We're doing a live show and a full takeover! Use code BEYOMONO for a discount at krazykasbh.com 🔥 FOLLOW KOLE & BELLA Kole: X: @xkole_hartx Instagram: @xkole_hartx OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/kole_hart Bella: X: @bellaharthtwife Instagram: @hotwife_bellahartt OnlyFans: onlyfans.com/bella.hart.hotwife OnlyFans (Free): onlyfans.com/bella.hart.free Kole & Bella on Reddit: u/BehindBellaHart 📻 FULLSWAPRADIO Catch us every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central on fullswapradio.com 🌐 BEYOND-MONOGAMY.COM Every episode, our blogs, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story or question there, no names ever: beyond-monogamy.com If this episode hit home, subscribe, leave us a 5-star review, and share it with the couple who keeps asking, "So… how does that work?"
- 6 days ago31 min
Retire the DJ: Hand Play Tips, Lube & Hygiene for Swingers (Quickie)
Wicka wicka wicka... stop it. On this Beyond Monogamy quickie, Adam and Pris give your hands the attention they deserve. Fingers, palms, and knuckles may be the most underrated tools in the bedroom, and the most misused, because a whole lot of people learned their moves from porn. The swinger podcast for ethical non-monogamy covers what's going wrong, how to do it right, and the hygiene nobody wants to talk about but everybody needs to hear. In this quickie: Retiring "the DJ" and the jackhammer myth: faster and harder isn't better Why so many women never say "I don't like that," and why you should Nerve endings live on the outside: read the body, not the porn script Pris on pH balance, sensitivity, and why unwashed hands ruin the mood Ladies, the shaft is not a stress ball: Adam's case for a gentle touch Lube is your friend, for everybody Anal play, fisting, and the curiosity that comes with both Hygiene 101: wash for 20 seconds, clean under your nails, no back-to-front cross contamination, and gloves are sexy Long nails, cuts, hangnails... and the bacon-wrapped jalapeño honeymoon horror story The takeaway: speak up, guide your partner, and wash your hands, you dirty bastards. CONNECT WITH US Website: beyond-monogamy.com for episodes, blogs, merch, and our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central Anonymous Confessional: Got a story, question, or complaint about somebody's hands? Drop it 100% anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com FullSwapRadio: Hear us every Thursday at fullswapradio.com COME SEE US Swinger 101 LIVE at Forbidden Fruit, Austin, Sunday, November 15: $20, light refreshments, and we'll answer your questions in person! Krazy Winter Nights, Kansas City, February 19-21: Start planning your winter! Use code BEYOMONO at KrazyKasbah.com OUR PARTNERS 3Fun: The app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. Easy, low pressure, and it actually works. Download 3Fun here Spunk Lube: Simple and long lasting. Get 10% off with our link Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris: real talk on the swinger lifestyle, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy. Subscribe, rate, and share with someone who needs to retire the DJ.
- 1 weeks ago58 min
One-Way Monogamy Isn't ENM: The Manosphere, a Pastor & His Second Wife
He does whatever he wants, and she stays loyal. That's "one-way monogamy," the setup some manosphere influencers are bragging about, and this Halloween episode of Beyond Monogamy, the swinger podcast for ethical non-monogamy, rips the mask off it. Adam and Pris dig into Louis Theroux's Netflix documentary Inside the Manosphere, the Ohio pastor who introduced a "second wife" from the pulpit, and why none of it is ENM. In this episode: One-way monogamy in the manosphere, and the women's faces that said everything Trad wives, religion, and how "obedience" gets passed down The viral co-pastor announcement, "if they want another husband, they don't want me," and the serious allegations that followed (denied by the couple) Polygamy vs. polyamory: not the same thing, not even the same realm Power, age gaps, and consent when your pastor calls himself a prophet, from a former seminarian The "one penis policy" and the insecurity behind it Double standards: why people assume the woman got talked into the swinger lifestyle Do women really run the lifestyle? Unicorns, single men, and bulls Pris's message to women: your partner is not your owner. Use your voice. Bottom line: whether it comes from a podcast mic or a pulpit, if the freedom only runs one way, it isn't non-monogamy. It's control with a new label. If this episode hits close to home: RAINN offers free, confidential support 24/7 at 800-656-4673 or rainn.org. CONNECT WITH US Website: beyond-monogamy.com for episodes, blogs, merch, and our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central Anonymous Confessional: Judged for wanting it, or pushed into something that didn't feel mutual? Tell us, 100% anonymously, at beyond-monogamy.com FullSwapRadio: Catch us every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central at fullswapradio.com COME SEE US Swinger 101 Workshop at Forbidden Fruit, November 15: Real talk on communication, saying no, and doing the lifestyle the ethical way. Come hang with us! Krazy Winter Nights, Kansas City, February 19-21: Come play with us! Use code BEYOMONO at KrazyKasbah.com OUR PARTNERS SDC: Ready to meet couples who do this the ethical way? It's where we'd start. Use our link with code 38236 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris: real talk on the swinger lifestyle, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy. Subscribe, rate, and share with someone who needs to hear it.
- 1 weeks ago34 min
Mismatched Sex Drives: When Stress, Meds & Menopause Hit
Is there such a thing as a "normal" sex drive? Nope. On this Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris get real about mismatched sex drives: the high, the low, and everything in between. Adam, the self-proclaimed every-single-day guy, opens up about a recent slowdown in his libido, while Pris, a lifelong take-it-or-leave-it, explains why talking about sex doesn't flip her switch and why cuddles sometimes beat the main event. Whether you're in the swinger lifestyle, practicing ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or totally monogamous, libido mismatch isn't a lifestyle problem. It's a human one. And this swinger podcast proves the fix starts with one honest conversation. In this episode: Why there's no "normal" number when it comes to sex drive How new medications, menopause, and hormones can shift desire Stress, sleep, weight, and body image as libido killers Why cuddling can feel safer than sex when life gets heavy Masturbation for dopamine vs. sex with a partner: the "whole dance" The fear of a low-libido season becoming the new normal "If one is down, pick up the other": who initiates when desire dips Adam's on-air accountability pledge (comment and ask if he got up and walked!) When to talk to your partner, your doctor, or a therapist Thanks to our sponsors and affiliates: ProDX Health — At-home STI tests plus hormone tests for men and women, with results straight to your phone. Use code BEYOMONO for 15% off at prodxhealth.com. FirmTech Tech Ring — A comfortable overnight ring that tracks your natural erections while you sleep and sends the data to your phone to share with your doctor. Use code BEYOMONO at myfirmtech.com/adamalvarez. Sliquid — When you two are on the same page, Sliquid has you covered. Get 15% off at sliquid.com. Come hang out with us: Swinger 101 Workshop — Austin, TX — Sunday, November 15, 2026, 6–8 PM at Forbidden Fruit Austin. Light refreshments, a small fee, and two hours to ask us anything. Details on the Sponsors tab at beyond-monogamy.com. Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City — February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount at krazykasbh.com. Full Swap Radio — Catch us every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central on fullswapradio.com. Beyond-Monogamy.com — Merch, every episode, our blog, sponsor discounts, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Tell us where your drive lands! beyond-monogamy.com
- 2 weeks ago57 min
What If Non-Monogamy Was Normal? Catholic Guilt & Our Other Lives
What would your life look like if non-monogamy had always been normal? A listener voicemail stopped us in our tracks with that question, so Adam & Pris imagine the versions of themselves that never got the chance to exist. We both grew up Catholic in Mexican-American households with a strict script for what a good man and a good woman were supposed to be. This is one of our most personal episodes yet about ethical non-monogamy, the swinger lifestyle, and how culture and religion shape who we love. In this episode: A listener voicemail asks: who would we be if non-monogamy were normal? Pris's childhood crushes, growing up bi in a "don't date outside your race or gender" household Adam's "girl-crazy" shame and why he thought something was wrong with him Would there be less cheating if monogamy and non-monogamy were treated equally? Wanting "the one," having a primary, and why poly didn't work for us Could either of us ever go back to monogamy? Catholic guilt, Adam's time in the seminary, and why he walked away Machismo, toxic masculinity, and finding Latinx couples in the lifestyle Our alternate-timeline lightning round: who are we dating at 18, and do we still find each other? Thanks to our sponsor: SDC: The largest online community for open-minded adults, with your people all in one place. Make a profile and go explore. Sign up with code 38236: sdc.com/?ref=38236 Come hang out with us IRL: Krazy Winter Nights, Kansas City: February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount at krazykasbh.com Full Swap Radio: Catch us streaming every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central at fullswapradio.com Tell us your other timeline: Grew up with rules that didn't fit? Share your story in our 100% anonymous confessional at beyond-monogamy.com. While you're there, check out the merch, past episodes, and our blog.
- 2 weeks ago35 min
Where Do You Find Swingers? Apps, Clubs & Meet-and-Greets That Work
Where do you actually find other swingers? It's the number one question in our inbox, our DMs, and our confessional, so on this QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down where the swinger lifestyle really lives: online, in person, and in places you might not expect. We draw on 15 years of ethical non-monogamy experience, wins and misfires included. In this episode: How we got started: Adult FriendFinder, Swing Lifestyle, Kik chats, and the pre-app days Free vs. paid accounts on SDC, 3Fun, and FetLife, and which ones fit what you want Community vs. casual: why chasing friendships beat chasing sex for us The Facebook group method: going from public state groups to private local ones AI photos, catfishing, fake profiles, and why Pris verifies everybody Red flags: pushiness, one-word openers, and couples' profiles that only show one partner Swinger clubs, host couples, newbie nights, and low-pressure vanilla meet-and-greets Takeovers, lifestyle travel, cruises, workshops, Reddit, and Discord Thanks to our sponsors and partners: FirmTech: The Tech Ring tracks firmness and blood flow with real data in an app, and the Ring Mate attachment is all about your partner's pleasure. Use code BEYOMONO for 15% off: myfirmtech.com/adamalvarez SDC: The lifestyle's biggest community, with profiles, verification, parties, and travel. Join with code 38236: sdc.com/?ref=38236 3Fun: Quick, on-the-go swiping for couples and singles. Use code TK11932: go3fun.co/ad/TK11932 SwingTap: Tap a ring, wallet, or QR code to share your whole lifestyle profile instantly: swingtap.fun/share/beyomono Come hang out with us IRL: Swinger 101 Workshop: November 15 at Forbidden Fruit in Austin, TX. $20 per person, with light refreshments. Krazy Winter Nights, Kansas City: February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount at krazykasbh.com Full Swap Radio: Catch us streaming every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central. Join our community: Visit beyond-monogamy.com for merch, every episode, our blog, our 100% anonymous confessional, and the "Join Our Community" link to our Facebook group.
- 3 weeks ago1h 18m
Quickie Mashup: Prostate Play, the P-Spot & Slut-Shaming
New here? Start with this Quickie Mashup! We took two of our favorite past QUICKIE episodes and put them back to back, so new listeners can catch up on the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) talk you might have missed. Quickie #1: The P-Spot Confessional. A listener writes in about prostate play and what it does for him, and it starts a very real conversation. Adam gets candid about an early experience that happened without consent, why toxic masculinity keeps men from talking about male pleasure, and whether he's ready to explore it with Pris. Then we share a practical starter guide: talk first, start slow, and use plenty of lube. Quickie #2: Sluttiness. What actually makes someone a "slut"? We dig into where the word came from in the 1400s, the double standard between men and women, slut-shaming inside and outside the lifestyle, Adam's hotwife kink, Pris learning to date solo, and why sexual freedom is such a turn-on in an open relationship. Prostate play, the P-spot and male pleasure Consent, vulnerability and "finding your no" Toxic masculinity and the "I ain't gay" myth The history of the word slut and the double standard Alcohol, THC and lowered inhibitions Hotwife fantasies, solo dates and insecurity after 15 years in the lifestyle Slut-shaming in the swinger community CONNECT WITH US 🌐 Website: beyond-monogamy.com. Full episodes, quickies, blog, merch and our guest lineup. 🤫 Anonymous Confessional: Got something on your mind about the lifestyle, ENM, kink or the show? Drop it 100% anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com. It might end up on a quickie! 📻 FullSwapRadio: Catch us on fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. UPCOMING EVENT ❄️ Krazy Winter Nights, Kansas City, Feb 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for your discount at krazykasbh.com. OUR SPONSORS (use our links, they support the show!) 💍 FirmTech: The Tech Ring and Ring Mate for firmness, blood flow and real data. Use code BEYOMONO for 15% off at firmtech.co 📲 SwingTap: One lifestyle profile, shared with a tap from a ring, bracelet or card. One-time fee, no subscription. swingtap.fun/share/beyomono 💋 SDC: The largest online community for open-minded adults. Sign up at sdc.com with code 38236 🧪 ProDX Health: We test, and they've got the hookup. Code BEYOMONO gets you 15% off at prodxhealth.com
- 3 weeks ago36 min
Sweat, Queefs & Cramps: The Messy Truth About Swinger Sex
The swinger lifestyle sells candlelight, lingerie, and flawless bodies. Then somebody's calf locks up mid-threesome. On this Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the swinger podcast for ethical non-monogamy and open relationships, we tell on ourselves about the part of sex nobody puts in the highlight reel: the noises, the sweat, the cramps, and every moment your body decides to do its own thing in a room full of people. Bodies are gross, add more bodies and you get more gross, and laughing it off might be the sexiest skill in the lifestyle. In this episode: Why real full swaps and threesomes aren't Cinemax (sadly, no saxophone guy) Sweating in hot hotel rooms, and why towels and mini fans are lifestyle essentials Queefing: why it happens, the core and Kegel trick, and how a wedge pillow helps Guy stuff: gas anxiety, needing to pee mid-swap, and protecting the gems Growling stomachs, squeaky beds, slurping vs. gagging, and other sounds Bad breath, heavy breathing, squirting, and getting over the "ick" Leg cramps mid-play: hydrate, stretch, and work through it When it stops being funny: dizziness, chest pain, and knowing when to stop 📱 3Fun: the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. Easy, low-pressure, and way less awkward. Use code TK11932: Download 3Fun here 💧 Sliquid: 15% OFF our go-to body-safe lube that actually feels good. Shop Sliquid here 📅 Swinger 101 Workshop: Sunday, Nov 15, Forbidden Fruit, Austin, TX. $20/person, light refreshments, real talk, and full access to us for all the questions you've been too nervous to ask. 📅 Krazy Winter Nights: Feb 19–21, 2027, Kansas City. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com 📻 FullSwapRadio: catch us every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central at fullswapradio.com 📺 Beyond Monogamy LIVE: our FREE livestream, every Thursday at 7 PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com 🤫 Got a mortifying story? Drop your messiest bodily-embarrassment moments in our 100% anonymous confessional at beyond-monogamy.com. We read every single one, and yours might end up on a future show. Full episodes, quickies, blogs, and merch live there too. Follow, subscribe, and leave us a five-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, then send this episode to the friend who would absolutely die if this happened to them.
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About Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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