163. How to Build Habits That Actually Last (Not Just for 30 Days)

Most habits fail not because people lack discipline, but because they never become automatic. In this episode, Josh, Alessandra, and Joelle break down what it actually takes to build habits that last for years, not just a few weeks, using personal stories and an unexpected parallel from jujitsu. You'll learn: Why automaticity, not motivation, is the real key to long-term habit change The Rule of Two framework: choosing one should, one need, and one want habit How small, daily actions compound into lasting change over time How to use habit stacking and minimal friction to make habits easier to sustain What jujitsu can teach you about patience and long-term skill development How to stay consistent through setbacks without losing momentum If you've started and stopped the same habits more times than you can count, this episode gives you a practical framework for building the kind that actually stick for good. L5 Health Score Quiz https://score.lvltnhealth.com/ LVLTN Health https://www.lvltnhealth.com/ The Fitness League app https://www.fitnessleagueapp.com/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Why Habits Fail and How to Succeed 316:37:09 The Power of Automaticity in Habits 6861:03:55 Personal Journeys and Long-Term Commitment 11305:30:42 Jujitsu as a Metaphor for Habit Building 16944:24:12 Starting Small and Building Momentum 25083:18:01 The Rule of Two: Should, Need, Want 33305:31:46 Practical Tips for Habit Implementation 418611:06:08 Overcoming Barriers and Staying Consistent 482777:46:32 Final Thoughts: The Power of Showing Up