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by Valerie Lynn Borgman
Desperately Seeking Senior Living is a podcast and caregiver resource created to help families navigate the overwhelming world of senior living, caregiving and aging. Hosted by Certified Senior Advisor Valerie Lynn, the show combines real conversations, practical guidance and emotional support for the moments families often feel unprepared for - from assisted living and memory care to caregiver burnout, guilt, grief and family dynamics. Through expert interviews, family stories and doable tips, our goal is simple: helping families go from desperate to doable 💜
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- Oct 8, 202626 min
The Art of Advocacy: How to Speak Up for Someone You Love
What happens when the hospital says your loved one is ready to go home, but you know it isn't safe? Or when a doctor says no to a treatment you believe they need? In this personal episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie Lynn shares lessons from advocating for her younger sister following a pancreatic cancer diagnosis, along with real-life stories from families navigating complicated healthcare decisions. From understanding power of attorney to asking better questions, finding overlooked resources, and knowing when to push back, you'll learn how to advocate with confidence without taking away your loved one's independence. Because sometimes the difference between desperate and doable is knowing what question to ask next. ❤️ Subscribe for practical dementia and senior care tips that help families go from desperate to doable. 📌 Download this episode's Doable Download for a printable summary, caregiver resources and bonus tip: https://mailchi.mp/04a607dbf0ea/doable_download 📌 Need help navigating senior living or care options? Clear Path Senior Living Solutions helps families find assisted living, memory care, and other senior care resources. Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving 🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.
- Sep 10, 202616 min
You Think Mom Needs More Help - She Doesn't - Who's Right? EP 173
In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie Lynn explores the “line in the sand” - the point when living independently may need to look a little different. From falls and driving to showering, housekeeping, medications and home safety, you’ll learn why your definition of “needs help” may be very different from your loved one’s. Instead of starting with “You’re not safe at home,” Valerie shares questions that can help families understand what their loved one values, identify the changes that should trigger action, and make a plan before a crisis forces the conversation. Because getting help doesn’t have to mean giving up independence...and planning ahead can make aging decisions feel a lot less desperate and a lot more doable. Subscribe for practical dementia and senior care tips that help families go from desperate to doable. 📌 Download this episode's Doable Download for a printable summary, caregiver resources and bonus tip: https://mailchi.mp/c37e7a696434/doable_download 📌 Need help navigating senior living or care options? Clear Path Senior Living Solutions helps families find assisted living, memory care, and other senior care resources. Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving 🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.
- Aug 13, 202637 min
From Moving Across States to Finding Help in Unexpected Places: Jessica Guthrie's 12 Year + Caregiving Journey - EP 171
When Jessica Guthrie’s mom, Constance, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease at just 65 years old, Jessica was only 26. Nearly 12 years later, Jessica has experienced the caregiving journey through changing routines, wandering, researching memory care, hiring in-home caregivers, moving back into her childhood home, hospice and now providing around-the-clock care for her mom in the advanced stages of Alzheimer’s. In this deeply personal conversation, Jessica returns to Desperately Seeking Senior Living to share what that journey has really looked like - including the things she wishes she had known earlier. ✓ Why Jessica ultimately left her life in Texas and moved home to Virginia ✓ How routines and a familiar environment helped her mom ✓ Why dementia caregiving requires trying, adjusting and trying again ✓ Her experience researching memory care and in-home care ✓ What families should know when hiring caregivers ✓ Why the energy caregivers bring into the room matters ✓ The reality of caring for someone with advanced Alzheimer’s ✓ How Jessica thinks about hospice and the end of life ✓ The unexpected people who became part of her caregiving support system ✓ Why an Alzheimer’s diagnosis doesn’t mean joy, connection and making memories have to end Jessica also shares a powerful reminder for family and professional caregivers: you are the thermostat. The energy you bring into the room can help set the temperature for the person receiving care. And perhaps her most important message? A diagnosis is not the end. It can be an invitation to get closer, be present, continue making memories and keep finding moments of joy with the person you love. @jessica_c_guthrie Subscribe for practical dementia and senior care tips that help families go from desperate to doable. 📌 Download this episode's Doable Download for a printable summary, caregiver resources and bonus tip: https://mailchi.mp/a2883ee40d91/doable_download 📌 Need help navigating senior living or care options? Clear Path Senior Living Solutions helps families find assisted living, memory care, and other senior care resources. Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving 🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.
- Jul 9, 202628 min
Caregiving & Your Other Job - What Every Boss Should Know - EP 171
What happens when caregiving collides with the workplace? In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie sits down with caregiving strategist and Alzheimer's advocate Jessica C. Guthrie to explore the business side of caregiving. Together, they discuss the challenges millions of working family caregivers face while balancing careers, caring for aging loved ones and navigating systems that aren't always designed to support them. Jessica shares why empathy in leadership isn't just compassionate - it's essential. The conversation also explores the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), psychological safety in the workplace and how employers, healthcare professionals and senior living providers can become stronger partners for family caregivers instead of unintentionally creating additional barriers. Whether you're a family caregiver, an employer, a manager or a senior living professional, this episode offers valuable insight into understanding caregivers and creating workplaces and care systems where caregivers feel seen, supported and empowered. In this episode, you'll learn: Why working family caregivers often struggle in silence How empathy from managers can transform the employee experience What employers should understand about caregiver support How healthcare and senior living professionals can better partner with families Why caregivers deserve systems that work - not just sympathy Be sure to join us next month when Jessica returns to share her deeply personal caregiving journey and the experiences that shaped her mission to make family caregivers visible and valued. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! To connect with us & get your FREE GUIDE goto - https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable
- Jun 11, 202647 min
A Grandson's 20-Year Dementia Caregiving Journey: Lessons Every Family Caregiver Needs - EP 170
For more than 20 years, Ed Taylor helped care for his grandmother through dementia - long before he ever considered himself a caregiver. In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Ed shares the realities of family caregiving, including navigating cognitive decline, managing crises, making difficult care decisions and balancing caregiving responsibilities with work and everyday life. Together, we discuss caregiver burnout, power of attorney, hospice, family dynamics and the challenges many families face when trying to do it all on their own. Ed reflects on his "superhero cape" mindset that kept him carrying the weight of caregiving for years and explains why accepting help ultimately allowed him to return to his most important role: being a grandson. Whether you're currently caring for a loved one with dementia or preparing for the future, this conversation offers practical insights, honest reflections, and encouragement for every family caregiver. In this episode, we discuss: • Recognizing when caregiving has moved into crisis mode • Why power of attorney should be established before it's needed • Managing difficult family and sibling dynamics • The emotional impact of dementia on caregivers • Hospice myths and realities • How to know when it's time to ask for help • Why caregivers must prioritize their own well-being CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! To connect with us & get your FREE GUIDE goto - https://linktr.ee/Desperatelyseekingseniorliving Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable
- May 14, 202615 min
Assisted Living Asked You to Move Out - Aging in Place Explained
You moved your loved one into assisted living, signed the paperwork and finally exhaled… then came the phone call no family wants to receive: “We can no longer meet their care needs.” In this episode, Valerie breaks down why assisted living communities sometimes ask residents to move, what families need to know about aging in place, licensing and discharge notices and how to advocate if this happens to someone you love. This is an emotional topic that leaves many families feeling shocked, guilty or blindsided - but understanding the why behind these decisions can help families feel more prepared a little less overwhelmed and help make things a little more doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Guest Application Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable
- Apr 6, 202620 min
When Assisted Living Doesn’t Feel Right - Expectations vs Reality - EP 168
You can do everything “right” and still walk away feeling unsure - and that doesn’t mean you failed. This episode gently walks you through the difference between something being wrong and something simply not being right for you. Because senior living isn’t just about care on paper - it’s about how that care feels, how it’s communicated, and how your family experiences it day to day. If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that something’s off, this will help you understand why -and remind you that trusting yourself is part of making this journey doable. CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Guest Application Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable
- Mar 2, 202612 min
Is the Hospital Discharging Too Soon? What Families Can Do - EP 167
Getting a call that your dad is being discharged from the hospital can send you straight into panic mode - especially when you know there’s no safe plan waiting at home. In this episode, we talk about why hospitals move so quickly, what “medically stable” really means, and the one powerful phrase that can help you slow things down safely. If you’ve ever felt rushed, pressured, or unsure during a discharge conversation, this episode will help you feel more prepared and more confident. You’re not being difficult - you’re advocating. ...and hopefully this episode makes it a little more doable! CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips! Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clearpathsls.com Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show? Guest Application Email us at connect@desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com with your senior living questions. www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣 Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!! @desperatetodoable #desperatetodoable
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Desperately Seeking Senior Living is a podcast and caregiver resource created to help families navigate the overwhelming world of senior living, caregiving and aging. Hosted by Certified Senior Advisor Valerie Lynn, the show combines real conversations, practical guidance and emotional support for the moments families often feel unprepared for - from assisted living and memory care to caregiver burnout, guilt, grief and family dynamics. Through expert interviews, family stories and doable tips, our goal is simple: helping families go from desperate to doable 💜
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