What is Avoidance Abuse?

In traditional marriage and family therapy, if there's no physical abuse, relationship problems are usually treated as "50/50." I believe this ignores the power dynamics in many relationships between men and women. That's why I coined the term "avoidance abuse": the use of covert power and control in a relationship. It can look like one-sided arguments, no attempts to repair, tone-policing, and withdrawing from the relationship. If this sounds like your marriage, it's not your fault, it's not a 50/50 issue, and there are steps you can take.    FREE GUIDES https://www.codependencykate.com/store   Find more @CodependencyKate on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok    www.codependencykate.com